A personal essay explores the often-overlooked struggles of domestic violence survivors who may not immediately recognize their experiences as abuse. The author shares how systemic gaps in support—from legal barriers to societal stigma—leave many feeling isolated even after escaping harmful relationships. The piece argues for stronger community resources and cultural shifts to ensure survivors receive the help they need, regardless of how their trauma is labeled. New York is highlighted as a case study for how cities can improve policies and public awareness to better address these unmet needs.


Op-ed | I didn’t know I was a survivor: How New York can better support those impacted by domestic violence  amNewYork