A long-time neighbor relationship has soured after a granddaughter’s behavior shifted from friendly to disruptive, prompting repeated complaints about doorbell misuse and animal teasing. Despite warnings from the resident, the granddaughter’s actions continued, leaving the neighbor frustrated and seeking guidance on how to address the issue. The grandmother has acknowledged the problem and pledged to intervene, but the situation remains unresolved. Readers weighing in on the column offer advice on setting boundaries and communicating with family members about shared property concerns.
DEAR ABBY: My next-door neighbor, “Dee,” has a granddaughter, “Sarah.” A year ago, I was friendly with Sarah, but months later, she became disrespectful. She wouldn’t listen when I asked her not to ring my doorbell for no reason or tease my cats. I told Dee, and she said she would try to talk to...
