"Love and Loyalty: Debating Etiquette in the Face of Friendship" In a recent column, popular advice columnist Dear Abby tackles two thorny issues that often arise in the realm of close relationships. One reader, set to tie the knot in a surprise elopement, is torn between wanting to keep the celebration intimate and involving her friends in the planning process. Should she ask her friends to organize a surprise party for the occasion, or keep the secret to herself? Meanwhile, another reader is grappling with the delicate question of whether to ask a friend to reimburse her for a pricey sweater that was ruined in their care. As these two readers seek guidance on navigating the complexities of friendship and loyalty, Dear Abby offers her signature blend of wisdom and wit to help them make informed decisions. Will the future bride find a way to celebrate her special day with her friends, and will the sweater-wearing reader get the reimbursement she deserves?
Dear Abby advises a future bride on whether to ask her friends to plan a celebration for her elopement, and a friend who doesn't know whether to ask her friend to reimburse her for the expensive sweater she ruined.
