New York City's dating scene can be overwhelming, with endless options and no clear guide to help navigate the city's diverse neighborhoods and venues. For those tired of defaulting to the same familiar spots or spending hours scouring the internet for ideas, a new free tool is aiming to change the game. A user-generated date night planner allows users to input their preferences - neighborhood, vibe, budget, and time - and receives personalized recommendations for real spots, complete with reservation links. The creator of the tool, a self-proclaimed NYC enthusiast, hopes to provide a more tailored and trustworthy experience, akin to having a local friend recommend the best spots to visit. But now, the community is being asked to weigh in: is this tool truly useful, or is it just another generic list generator?


Planning dates in NYC always feels like either: default to the same few neighborhoods/spots spend 45 minutes bouncing between Google Maps, Resy, TikTok, Reddit, and Infatuation give up and pick “drinks somewhere” So I built a free little date night planner for NYC. You pick a neighborhood, vibe, budget, and time, and it suggests real spots with reservation links. The goal is not to make another generic “10 romantic restaurants in NYC” list. I’m trying to make it feel more like a friend who knows the city and gives you a usable plan. It’s free, no signup, and very much still early. I’d genuinely love brutally honest feedback: Are the suggestions actually useful? Do the neighborhoods/vibes feel right? Does it feel too generic? What would make you trust or use something like this? What date-planning pain am I missing? If this feels too self-promotional, totally fair! Mostly looking for feedback before I keep building. submitted by /u/marvinshkreli [link] [comments]